Scott E. Wilder, 73, of Westford, passed away unexpectedly on Thursday, October 22, 2026 at Care One in Lexington.

Born on July 1, 1953, in Melrose, Scott was one of three children of the late Roger C. and Edith (Decker) Wilder. Scott grew up with a passion for art that would shape his life's journey.

A graduate of Melrose High School, Scott pursued his love for art, earning a Bachelor's degree in Art History from the University of Massachusetts Boston. He went on to build a successful career as a graphic designer, contributing his talents to the Harvard University Botanical Museum and later to the Harvard Graduate School of Education. His work was known for its creativity and attention to detail, reflecting his deep appreciation for the visual arts.

In the fall of 1976, Scott met the love of his life, David Ebert. Their relationship flourished, and they later married, creating a partnership built on love, respect, and endless support for one another.

Scott was not only recognized for his professional accomplishments but also for his kindness, intelligence, and articulate nature. He had an innate ability to connect with others, making him a cherished companion to all who knew him. His passions extended beyond design; Scott was a talented painter, a pianist, and a lover of traditional music. He and David attended many traditional music events over the years. Scott cherished the experiences of world travel, constantly seeking inspiration and connection in new and diverse cultures in South America, Mexico, Central America, Europe, the American Southwest and Asia.

Scott's kindness, warmth, and love for others will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered.

Scott was the beloved husband of David H. Ebert with whom he shared 50 years of marriage. Loving brother of Mark Wilder and wife Betty of Wakefield and Gregg Wilder and wife Lisa of Strafford, NH. Proud uncle of Nate, Doug, and Lindsay Wilder. 

Family and friends are invited to gather in honor of Scott's life for his Funeral Service at the Robinson Funeral Home, 809 Main Street, Melrose, on Thursday, Nov. 12 at 2pm.